Please, please look up resources for gifted aspergers. I know that many kids with aspergers are above average IQ but there is definately a difference of symptoms with gifted aspergers. We spent two years saying no, she doesn't have aspergers until we read about the differences. Then the light bulb really went on and we had our DD tested. Same thing with family until they read up on the different presentations.

Sorry, I know I'm repeating myself again.

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