I'm stressing over our upcoming parent/teacher confernces. How to put that rare 15 minutes one-on-one with the teacher to good use?

For DS, should I share his WPPSI-III results? Is that like bragging or will it really be useful for the teacher? I'm not sure whether anything positive would come out of sharing...

For DD, should I ask about GATE testing? The principal was very negative about the GATE program at a meeting a few weeks ago. I can't decide if I want DD to be involved or not...

I hate these kinds of decisions because I always feel like I don't have enough information to make a good decision or to even know how important the decision is!

Cathy