Well, since the OP and G3 were arguing that the long-term problem was big for them, and since I think there are ways to solve that problem, at least to some extent, I was trying to take that next step.

I definitely side with the "worry about now" view myself. But I sympathize mightily with those afraid of what they'll do with a 13yo graduating from high school or whatever nutty situation might result.

Kriston