[quote=Katelyn'sM om
But overall I have to say I am really hopeful that the preschool is a good fit and DD is super excited about it all. [/quote]

Yippee! So glad she's looking forward to it. Don't you wish, in those moments your DD shines, you could just say, "Yeah - isn't that miraculous?" The only drawback I can see to doing that is that it makes the other moms feel inadequate, like they've done something wrong or not done something right. But really, your DD is miraculous. I hope the new school and its staff and parents embrace that fact.