shelly...Have you ever consoled a mother who's son died as a result of ADD drug use? I have. I realize that research indicates that this is a one in a million chance, but how do you know which kid is the millionth one?

I also know that my nephew has suffered serious side affects and DH's nephew is incarcerated for drug trafficing that began with his Ritalin prescription

Again, every parent has to make their own choice and for me, these experiences speak very loudly against medications for my child.