Update:
We saw the Optometrist!! OH MY!!!

We are overwhelmed!! We are feeling like horrible parents for not getting to this point sooner!!!

We still have more testing and such before we have a final outcome with treatment, school recommendations, etc.

Again I want to thank everyone here for your responses!! As hard as it is to know that babybear has "significant perceptual deficits", it is encouraging that we have found the crux of her difficulties!