Thanks to all of you! Even if I didn't respond to each and every person, I carefully read all your posts. It's very scary to have one's child say they think the world would be better off without them. She had also checked on the assessment that she had thought about suicide. DH and I had a conversation with her about suicide (with notes from the psych). She said "of course" she had thought about it. And then she goes on to say she had read a couple of books in which a character kills themselves so "philosophically" she had thought about suicide. That's why she answered the assessment the way she did. She didn't plan to do it herself. She is so frustrating!!!!!

I really appreciate the support here.