Originally Posted by Zen Scanner
Sounds like the same situation as the pre-school teacher, then. This is a teacher who has already made her own diagnosis and wants to make sure that her conclusion wins.

Do you have a concern about having opened the sealed envelope in terms of even approaching her about it?

Not really. He's 8 years old and he's my kid. I feel like if you write something about him and submit it for something as serious as this I deserve to know what you say and you had better be able to defend it.

My only concern is that I'll get angry with her, have an argument.... That our "relationship" break down. Part of me feels like - just brush it off but I know me ... I can't trust her now so I'll distance myself and be less involved, ykwim? Like we're not a team anymore.