Yes, I too am in the middle on this - doing my best to help DS get organised but also happy to help/rescue if he needs it and I can. I ask my DH to rescue me from time to time too... I will say, though, that over the last year or two DS9 has made enormous progress in this area, and I really can't complain now. So hang in there, improvement may not be that far off...

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