Apparently we can get insurance to pay for a few meetings with the psych the school recommended as long as it is couched as counseling not assessment so we've gone ahead and set up a first meeting with him to see what, if anything, he can do for her. I'm going to give him copies of all old assessments and see if that is enough to get going.

I also have a free first consult set up for just me with the educational therapist to go over the assessments we already have, what more she can assess, and what, if anything, she could do in a matter of about six hour long sessions with dd since that's all we can afford.