Cricket it's such a hard place to be, I know just how tired and stressed you are.

With the reading issues, I am wondering if its more an irlen /scoptic sensitivity issue? I know very little about this but my understanding is that while colored glasses don't help most dyslexics (whose problems are more auditory/phonetic/phonemic) that for the percentage that do have these issues they make a huge difference.

I also agree it sounds like you need a fresh evaluation - but with a wrll behaved, highly gifted girl, who isn't failing obviously, you're going to have to find just the right person for it not to be a wildly frustrating waste of money. There isn't anyone where I live that's for sure (not that this I relevant to you).