Originally Posted by ColinsMum
But honestly, this sounds, to me, from what you've said, like a terrible idea. He says he likes school and is challenged there and doesn't (from what you said before) have behaviour problems there; he does have behaviour problems and trouble getting things done at home. Sorry to be flippant, but I think I'd be considering boarding school before I'd be considering homeed!

I agree with Colinsmum.

Remind me, Petunia-- Have you made any progress toward getting a neuropsych evaluation? Until you have a full diagnostic picture, you're flying blind on how to fix it.

Keep him for as much of his time as possible in situations where he can be successful. If getting a tutor/personal coach for more hours after school helps him be more successful at home, I'd do that. (A college age boy can work wonders where I cannot, it seems.)

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