Just goes to show that the same behavior can have vastly different underpinnings in two different PG persons, doesn't it?? I find that absolutely amazing to think about, personally. It's a great example of what I was referring to above, though, with a need for active listening in order to genuinely gain an understanding of causation with anyone who isn't NT.
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I think that I've covered all of the major considerations in my lengthy point-by-point pro/con analysis above. Time to confer with my DD and have her identify most/least-worst risks and most/least-best outcomes. Printing that for my DD and DH. Family conference time! (This will very definitely NOT involve happiness or butterflies. :sigh: Three type A people all with fine brains and their own opinions on everything. Watch the fur fly! Wheeee.)
Then at least I'll know what to discuss with the counselor/principal on Monday.
