Hey there are some kids who are lucky that breathing is automatic. If it took effort there would be a lot of blue kids. I remember checking students into the dorms in college with the helicopter parent answering address and phone. We would have to ask them to let the young adult handle it and please step back. When I tell people that it teach special education I always hear how patient I must be, My answer "No I am not patient, I want them to learn to do it for themselves, a patient person will do it for them forever.