So, what kind of parent am I? I keep close watch on my kids and try to make sure that they are being appropriately challenged. I've got one who finds school, even the gifted program, easy. I think that she would be a candidate for grade acceleration but socially she doesn't want to do it. I've talked to her about not wanting to wait until college to be challenged. The other is a gifted dyslexic who understands hard work and perseverance much better.
Knute974, you have certianly had a variety of experiences. I would have thought that a 'group 3' experience in elementary school would have a protective effect even if High School wasn't idea. It sure doesn't sound like it. In a way, you got to an Ivy Leauge school and were able to stay there in spite of a tough first semester. OTOH, you never developed the study skills or a belief in your ability to do the work. Do you share some of the dyslexia traits with your second born? That's another way people get a very confused self-image...
Luckily human development doesn't end at college, and I hope that since then, or soon, you get a better sense of what you can accomplish.
Good luck with your 'coaster' - I hope she gets lots of great teachers over the next few years!
Love and More Love,
Grinity
