Katelyn's Mom, thank you very very much for clarifying. That is exactly what I was hoping to convey.
No5, I am terribly sorry that you took my post so personally. I thought you were asking about the interpretation of this question on the DYS form, and I thought I was adding to this discussion with my general thoughts. It certainly was not an assessment of your particular child.
I am not even remotely interested in drama and find it upsetting to be the target of another person's angst, so I removed my post. My intent and desire is for all of us to be supportive of each other. I recognize that forums like this where we don't personally know each other makes it too easy to misinterpret our communications with each other.
