Also, maybe I'm crazy, but I personally do find it to be "grossly inappropriate" when she hits me. I understand it. I forgive it. I don't think it puts her in the category of children who are likely to grow up to be psychopaths. She's never hurt another child (other than the aforementioned biting incident, which I really think was reasonable under the circumstances). But I wouldn't feel comfortable attesting that my child had never displayed grossly inappropriate behavior.