Wow. I think this thread has been throw out of proportion. I don't think Gratefulmom is implementing you in her statement just her concern of potential cover up by any parent and clearly you have no plans to cover anything up, hence your question that started the thread. I read Gratefulmom's post as an argument for full disclosure of anything even if you consider it small because the experts at DYS might find value in the information as they provide service for the child(ren).
And as for the potential safety issues ... let's be realistic. We put our children at 'risk' every time we allow them to play on a public playground or send them to school. It's nice that DYS has allowed for this concern but most places don't.
