Gratefulmom, I think I've made it fairly clear that I am not in the process of applying, nor am I at all likely to apply in the near future. I also think I've made it clear that I'm not going to be lying on the application if I do apply.

And I really don't see how you could interpret what I've said as indicating that my child needs extra supervision around other children or that her presence would create a distraction/safety issue. That is obviously not the case.