NanRos, I didn't see it that way at all, so no worries smile. It's so frustrating for us parents to see that something's not quite right, and yet so difficult to put a finger on it. Thanks for trying to help - it's the collective effort that is so helpful for my decision making.

Good luck on your journey, and everyone else too! We're all trying our best, and it's great to have a community we belong to and can count on.