sorry, no real advice, just wanted to let you know that my DD4 is similar so I just don't push or initiate things or try to instruct. My DD would smash a sculpture that wasn't "perfect" or scribble over letters that don't look right to her, but won't allow me to show her how to do it and doesn't want to practice. Maybe she is mad because she learned so many things with one exposure whereas it takes more practice to make "perfect" letters. Sorry, no real advice here, just empathy.