You are very welcome in the forum. Debating schooling versus unschooling is purely recreational.
Don't get me wrong, upforit; I love having information, and I totally understand wanting to know where your kid is at. I even understand wanting to teach him. I once had a fantasy where I taught DD everything just so...until I met her and, thankfully, realized that she had other plans. If he seems to want help learning to read or write, by all means, help him...but if he doesn't seem to want it, I don't think that there's any reason to do it at this point.
Do you want to talk about his issues with preschool? I got the impression from your earlier posts that he was enjoying it and doing well. But if he isn't, well, DD doesn't go to preschool, of course, but if anyone knows about advocating with a school, it's the parents on this bulletin board.
