You're very welcome. Parenting a gifted child can be a very confusing enterprise - almost as confusing as being one - so it's nice being able to help someone make a little more sense of it all (I'm making counselling and social/emotional characteristics of gifted kids a big part of my masters program for that reason).
The good news, you have to realize, is that no matter how difficult it is for both of you that your DD right now has to deal with having a teenager's sense of rights and relationships and a much younger child's language and body, these things will even out as she gets older and as long as you approach her with a minimum of preconceptions and a maximum of adaptability, she's going to grow into a very thoughtful and respectful person. Gifted children often have a more developed awareness of themselves and others, greater empathy and sensitivity, and a stronger devotion to honesty, justice, and moral behavior than average kids, and it sounds like your DD is headed that way.
