What do you do when your child won't see a counselor but can't deal with school? Are you enabling them if you accommodate by keeping them at home for Distributed Learning or unschooling?

DS is 13. Last year was rough. This year, new high school (excellent program - perfect for gifted kids - rigorous, project based learning, fun, high tech, field trips etc.) but can't deal with it.

So disheartened.