Now DS principal has ignored two emails from me (he is working--summer school). In the last one I asked him to meet with me to discuss abusive/retaliatory behavior and referenced ADA and 504 and wanting to make sure things are "better for everyone" next year. It's been a REALLY long time since he promised to look into it (upon first request) and a fairly long time since I emailed again asking about appealing the grade.
NP has ignored two emails and a phone message, asking her when this "interview about developmental questions" is going to happen (fwiw, she told me she would have report to me by May 19--I'm not being pushy--and I've paid her big bucks out of pocket).
I called district office today and requested DS full educational record, including grades, test scores, disciplinary action, etc.
Are there any rules about how the district has to respond to me? All emails from the last two weeks of school were unanswered--school's out for two weeks now.
Can they do this? Because the situation is so dicey (with all the nepotism and my relationship with the district gifted program), it all makes me really uneasy. Seriously--I'm considering an attorney consult. There is a special ed attorney who has many mutual friends with me and does initial consult for free.
I'm kind of (really) tired of this...waiting. I've done every single thing I can think to do. If it had just been the "DS nearly tanked out of 6th grade" issue (he didn't) then I could probably relax but that horribly ugly, damaging teacher has kind of put the fear of God in me and I'm feeling like protecting DS at whatever cost from future disasters.