Cola,
When the school gives a parent a questionnaire to fill out, you should comment on the environments you observe your son in (home, social activities, church etc.). If his teacher is reporting different behavior at school, don't comment on that because you are relaying her report. If your son is displaying different behavior across multiple environments, that is a red flag. Is there another restrictive environment you can observe his behavior in similar to a classroom? Like church, or the movies? Is he fidgety at those times?
