Do they bore her or make her feel uncomfortable? DS8 sometimes has the close talker from Seinfeld problem, he is in your face if he wants you to know something. And he used to prefer adults for conversation but now he's good with both but if it's an uncomfortable topic - like he has done something wrong - I have to do the "look at me when I am talking to you". Maybe she is just hyper sensitive to adults so that it's all criticism or constraining, so she looks away. What was her reaction to the emotion in harry potter - especially in the movies, was she able to handle it, does it make sense to her. I had to press DS to discuss it because the emotions were so big, but once I did it was clear he got it just didn't want to because it hurt and made him cry, so would rather focus on magic. But did get it. But had trouble with the level of evil, he was used to cartoon evil, having same trouble with graphic novel, Nathan hale on history topics, World War I, not focusing on true evil, not surface evil. Cartoon evil like taking over the world is fun. Voldemort should be the same. It's the most stand out level of asynchrony for him. Could this be that for her?

DeHe