Thank you polarbear! No, it did not feel like you were lecturing! And even if you were - please lecture away ... You really have BTDT with this stuff and you really know what it is like to have a kid like mine smile I'd pay for your lectures LOL

All of what you and Pemberely and Fwtxmom wrote are exactly what my concerns are! Turns out my concerns are more than valid. I am actually going to draft an email using your posts b/c you all articulately the issues and drawbacks so beautifully and clearly and oppose the proposal. We can discuss at the upcoming meeting meeting but I want to get this in writing and out to them so they know why I am against this. I don't expect any major push back - I think they are trying to help but are still just a bit clueless... Dysgraphia is not well-understood.