DS5 gets private OT (thankfully covered by insurance) for his sensory and motor issues, 30 minutes / week school OT for writing, and 30 minutes of school ST for pragmatic language issues. So I will check with the two OTs we have what they think. In the meanwhile I might as well get a referral to neuro-psych since it will take some 6 months to get in. I can always cancel the appointment if we no longer needed. We were looking for answers other than ASD anyways as we don't feel the diagnosis fits anymore (and his therapists agree)