My deepest sympathies (and sending lots of good wishes that you'll find a solution that works!!).
The thought of leaving my DS9 (ADHD) in care makes me cringe. Why just the other day I picked him up from a birthday party and he was the LOUD kid running around like a nut (and they only had him a couple of hours... which is why they were still smiling ;P ).
I've been a SAHM, but because our family needs me to return to work, I've gotten a teaching assistant certificate which means I'll only work when the kids are in school. The money isn't as good as a full time, year round job would be, but the schedule is perfect.
However I'm guessing changing your work hours/situation isn't an option (or you would have already). It's tough... hang in there & best of luck
