Thank you for all your replies I am really greatful that you took the time to reply.
It confirms the thought I had that it is something that is fixed and cannot really be changed as such.
It could certainly turn out to be a 2e issue but the psychologist said to continue to watch over the next couple of years and if it gets worse to come in for a complete neuropsych eval she said a PSI of 100 is considered normal for boys his age.
Cricket2 I appreciate an honest response so no fear of being a voice of negativity. I have suspected the same which is why I posed the question.I am very glad to hear your daughter is thriving. DS is apparently doing fine in school too except for needing reminders to complete his work. He "Exceeds expectations" for most subjects as per his report card. But he hates school these days. I guess we are lucky that he is a people pleaser and tries to please his teacher tho home is a different matter. Would you mind sharing what are the strategies you use with your DD?