It's a bit of a mind-blow to blink and have the whole world transform in that moment. I recommend chocolate
Grinity
The chocolate is for you dear! As the airlines say...put on your own oxygen mask first.
If you've been using rewards all along then I love the book 'Dont shoot the Dog'
but if your son isn't used to them, then I would recommend reading my very favorite parenting book before you start them...'Transforming the Difficult Child Workbook' by Lisa Bravo. (Yup the workbook covers the book fully and more concisely) They use reward systems very effectively but with a few twists.
Smiles
Grinity
