This is actually why we haven't sent Bear to a brick and mortar preschool besides the socializations he does at the district special needs preschool. We KNOW we'd be getting called everyday.

He has been in OT for a couple years now and it has actually does miracles. He went from tantrums over an hour every day or two to only having one like that every couple months. His sensory issues have been helped a lot too.

He's gone through just about every test that exists at this point and the best they've managed to come up with is sensory processing disorder and bad anxiety. That and smart....

Good luck!