It always feels great knowing that you're never alone in all of this! Hello and welcome to my life. Aculady, your child's comments are so similar to my sons! Some days I don't know if I should laugh or cry. Daily, my ds10 is constantly debating over everything we and teachers ask of him. It can be exhausting, frustrating, and at times quite humorous. The different perspective that kid can come up with is well, ... ??? ... hahaha ...ummmmm ... His personality is my daily job. I agree with the nutured heart approach. It helps you stay sane Lol...Hugs your way. I have empahty! smile