Originally Posted by daytripper75
I promised myself that I am not going to let this teacher make me feel bad, make me feel overbearing, or be condescending to our family again.
Re-posting some good advice I read on this board:

"The trick is to partition the whole past relationship with any school folk who are giving you a hard time and focus-focus-focus on the needs of the child and possible solutions. It's an odd trick, but I know you'll get the hang of it. You may not get the accommodations you are looking for, but at least your entire mind won't go crazy. Just that little walled off part that you can vent about here for the next 20 years. Hopefully somethings will have changed by then."
-Grinity