We have found the key to meltdowns is to find out what caused it. In the beginning this was really hard, because it's hard to explain things in the middle of a "hissy fit". But we've gotten better at translating between sobs.... As soon as I rectify the problem or explain why it can't be fixed, DS seems ok with that.

He is something of a control freak and situations that are out of his control are the hardest for him, generally causing the biggest blow.

Shari
Mom to DS 10, DS 11, DS 13
Ability doesn't make us, Choices do!