Yep you are not alone.
I feel my DS6 turns it around trying to punish me.
Just before he told me "we are going to discuss it later when I get home"
It is like where did you come from, lately I say a lot "you are not in charge I am, you don't tell me what to do, you don't make the rules etc".
Last night for dinner he wouldn't eat so I said "we are not millionnaires so you are not getting anythign else" he says "you are not a millionnaire because you don't believe in yourself" There is always something else to say. Then all of a sudden I was in this philisophical debate.