You must of worked with her a lot at home? Me.. I just followed her lead on what she wanted to learn.
I don't know that such questions are accusatory or even judgmental - they could just be curious about whether it was nature or nurture that led to one child excelling. I'm sure many parents are wondering if they should have done something differently with their own children and are more on the side of being self critical than being critical of you.
Can you tell I give people the benefit of the doubt? lol
