Shellymos,
My heart goes out to you!
I hope you find out the 'school's side of the story' soon - but it sure would make me wonder.
How many hours/week is this activity?
How does your son behave in groups of older children?
I've BTDT, and I don't see how putting a child in a group that he can't possibly handle will teach him to behave well in groups. Why do I think it's likely that your son can't possibly handle this group? Because I've seen my own PG kid just plain not be able to handle either agemates, or interacting with the teachers who have a clear picture of 'what 4 year olds are like and what they need.'
I don't know if your son is ready for K now. If he will be ready for K next year. If he ever would be able to tolerate K. I do know that there are some kids who will tolerate much more than they should - to the point where they get sick from it, and there are other kids who act out when they can't take it.
Apparently you and I have the acty-outy kind. I count my blessings.
Love and More Love,
Grinity
