Hi, eco21268, I tried to search your old posts but somehow couldn't see what your DS's diagnosis is, but I just want to first give you a big hug. Hang in there! Our kids will turn out to be fine one way or another. Their path of growth will not be exactly what we imagined, but with love, patience, wisdom and perseverance, they will be able to accomplish and enjoy so much!!

From your idea #2, I see a school that is not willing to fully support him and your family. I wonder whether it is possible to switch to a *better* school (again, I didn't read all of your old posts), then go for #1, or maybe a hybrid of #1 plus online courses.