So, I think many of the parents in this group are dealing with more extreme situations than you and I, but I still think some of these approaches are helpful:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/parentingwithconnection/837469033003595/?notif_t=group_comment_reply

Also--my bio dd would occasionally get stuck like that (usually over a math problem) and end up in tears.

I know how hard it is in a public place when you feel like people are staring and judging. Check out the above group, and maybe even post a specific example. I have gotten some good inspiration from lurking there.

Last edited by deacongirl; 05/15/15 09:05 AM.