We've learned not to talk about DD's happiness or lack thereof, because they really, really don't care... even when you're trying to explain how the bad fit is causing emotional trauma, which is a whole other level of "not happy."
And so it goes round and round...
"Your child is not happy? Our job is to teach children, not to make them happy."
"Okay, well, she's not learning anything. Could you maybe teach her something new?"
"Your DD is making straight As. What are you complaining about?"
AAARRRGGGHHH
