Were expectations proactively managed regarding the result of behavior choices? For example, "A tantrum today will result in loss of TV privileges tomorrow."
From the child's point of view, it may be that he never knows what to expect. It may appear that adults cannot be trusted, but rather make up arbitrary rules on the fly, according to their moods.
Well definitely, we are taking care of this: he is always aware of what is going on. We are proactive ... but he is more proactive than us. I mean that we should be anticipating everything ...Almost impossible
