Do I think gifted kids are special?
In general, yes.
(Yeah, I know that every child is special in his own way and all that, but I think that, quite frequently, a gifted kid is especially special -- how 'bout that?)

Do I think giftedness should be used to excuse poor behavior?
Nope.

Do I think that improper accommodation of a gifted kid in school can sometimes offer an explanation for poor behavior?
Yes.

Being offended is a natural consequence of leaving the house. - Fran Lebowitz