Originally Posted by OrlFamily
I understand our children are special but as a parent of 3 aren't all kids special? Don't all kids have needs? I do think gifted kids need different educational opportunities but it's the labeling of the behavior that bothers me (eg iq of 120? You're a jerk. Iq of 130? They're overexcitabilities).

I agree. From what I've seen so far, Dabrowski's theory appears to be based on anecdata, yet it's increasingly cited as gospel by various gifted experts.

Yes, gifted kids have serious educational needs. So do lots of other kids. And I agree with MON, it's ridiculous how hard it can be for a parent to work with school to get those needs met, and aggravating to see how many kids do not get them met.

Glad yours has what looks like a good school placement!