Thanks everyone. I'm going to send him to private school in 3rd grade and see how it goes. Although I think HS might be a better answer sometime down the road, this works for now. It's hard to look at something "just for today" and not consider it a long term answer. Money might also dictate at some point that we HS.

I think you might also be right about deschooling. The school year was stressful on all of us. I think I took it the hardest because I was the one trying to get things accelerated for him while also trying to support the teacher.

Thanks for all the support and all the different perspectives.