Hi Niki,
I'm sorry your meeting didn't go well. I don't have any sage words of advice, but am right there with you, except we have a 6 year old daughter in first grade. We haven't had our meeting yet with the ELP teacher, principal and classroom teacher.
Seems like the teacher was reaching to find something negative. If his behavior is less than what she expects, then she should talk to you about it when it happens, not wait. Perhaps the weather map was boring to him. Some kids like a little more hands on sorts of enrichment. Do you have pullout for ELP, or is it in classroom?
Hang in there, PM me if you want. I'm right in the thick of it as well.
Good luck!
