SAHM has great advice.
We were sort of reclusive when DD was little. I just couldn't bear to expose her to that kind of adult hostility-- she was definitely fully aware of it, and knew that it was directed at her.
It was terrifying for her, and not a little disconcerting for ME, for that matter.
Structured classes were good-- based around physical activities, though, NOT a blend of physical/cognitive/artistic, because-- well, that one is fairly obvious.
Library visits.
Lots of walks, play with outdoor toys, chalk, etc.
