Thanks! I wrote the entire sorted tale to Parent Support Coordinator for my area. It was a good practice to just write the entire timeline/chronology of incidents down even though it took hours. I asked for her advice and help in drafting some sort of communication to the school conveying the message that I will not let them continually violate the IEP (and documenting how the iep has been violated quite consistently for the past several months) but do this in a way where I am sure to look polite, respectful and rational. I told her I feel I am coming dangerously close to being “difficult irate parent” and we both know that will not help my son but I need the school to understand that my son must be given his scribing accommodations consistently and respectfully.

Fingers crossed she can help me!