Obviously your school does not like this accommodation. It is likely expensive and clumsy to administer. You have also shown yourself to be a parent that will hold their feet to the fire. Too bad. Their annoyance or your willingness to be a hard a** does not get them out of their obligation to meet your son's needs. I would be all over the woman with a megaphone like white on rice. I think you need to have very precise info on what the para is comparing between your ds and Peter. Maybe she was referring to his pencil grip or some other specific thing your ds is supposed to be working on. If it's just that Peter is doing his own writing and your ds is not that is definitely a problem. I'm not really sure how you find that out though...
This.
